Dear Julian,

I am a guy who loves wearing pantyhose. I would like to find girls who enjoy my fetish. Do you think there are any girls into this in this town? If so, where should I look?

Dear Guy,

I’m sure that there are girls who would enjoy what you’re into; but before we get to the wheres and whys, I want to clear up a common misconception. The people you find to play with do not have to have the exact same fetishes as you—just enough of an open mind and hedonistic outlook to enjoy them. The fact of the matter is that females are much less inclined to have fetishes than males. That does not, in any way, mean that we’re any less freaky. But it does mean that the likelihood of finding an exact match is very small. Do you need an exact match to enjoy yourself and engage your fetish? Heck, no!

Now, since we have that covered, I have some questions for you. Why do you enjoy pantyhose? Is it the sensation of being covered? Is it the feel of the nylon itself? Is it the taboo of wearing garments designed for women? Do you like to wear them secretly under your clothes or nothing but? Those answers will clear up where you want to look. If you’re into feminization and/or the sense experience of being covered and/or bound, then a good place to look would be the Kink community where people enjoy exchanging such sensations. If you’re looking for a girlfriend who’s also into such things or on the hunt for different girls to play with, I would run a personals ad. There are certainly lots of options, depending on exactly what you’re looking for.

In the near future we’ll be launching events designed for people to meet people who enjoy more eclectic tastes. Stay tuned for details.

So, Guy, I hope that helped. If you have any more questions, ask away.

Enjoy yourself,
Julian